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Male, Married and Loves to Wear Panties

We’re Panty Drop, an intimates company for all shapes and sizes, where you take a quiz and our panty experts find your perfect style and size. Our panties come in all different patterns and fabrics. We know no boundaries when it comes to size (XS-6XL)…and gender as well.

Around 15% of our community is male or identified as males. Was it a surprise to us? Actually, no, because we’re now in 2020 (come on folks) and about 1 in every 25 males in America wear panties.

You might assume that all these men are gender fluid or gay, but in fact many of them identify as straight males and are married. Want to take a peek into these fabulous lives where panties are shared and butts hang free? Read on!

My wife loves them on me

– Anonymous

I was 35 and my wife bought them from Kohl’s (they were Jockey brand for women) for me because I complained a lot about my underwear being too bulky. I loved how they felt and they were so light and the smaller waist band didn’t hurt my stomach like men’s underwear did.

I wear them daily and my preference is the bikini and high cut but I do wear thongs as well.

They make me feel sexy and comfortable. My wife loves them and they also keep me cooler down there. I keep them a secret but my wife’s friends know about them and they are okay with it.

The first time I wore panties, I was probably age 10

– Anonymous

I had some allowance money saved up and bought a couple pairs from a K-Mart that was on my way home from school. I don’t even remember what they looked like. I just remember stopping by the K-Mart everyday on my way home from school and sneaking in and buying panties. 

I wear panties a few days a week. It’s not a special occasion. Sometimes I wear panties to feel sexy. Sometimes I just like how they feel or look. I feel more confident knowing I’ve got my panties on. I feel sexy and empowered.

I’m very secretive about it. Only my wife knows and she’s cool with it. When we got married she was like “You wear whatever you want” and hasn’t really brought it up. 

I think men who want to wear panties should just go for it. It doesn’t make you less “manly”. In fact, it might boost your self-esteem knowing that you’re wearing something sexy and beautiful. I think for me there are several reasons to wear panties:

  1. A good pair of panties is way more comfortable than any men’s underwear.
  2. They are so many choices in cut, style, colors, fabrics, etc. 
  3. They look fantastic!  
  4. They make you feel sexy and confident.

I love thongs. They are very comfortable and sexy at the same time. It took me a long time to figure out the correct sizing because of the anatomical differences. There are all sorts of different styles and fabrics which I appreciate. My wife does enjoy it when I wear a sexy thong or g-string. I think it spices things up a bit. The right thong or g-string gets us both in the mood.

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147 replies on “Male, Married and Loves to Wear Panties”

Hello I am a white male who loves wearing womens bras and panties and lingerie I just can’t help myself I love them and feel so sexy when I wear them I love the different colors and styles and how they look and feel sometimes I think that I am bisexual but I just love them they just make me feel so sexy so please let me know what you think I have hated myself for these feelings for such a long time thank you for your understanding and help


Mathew, there’s nothing to b shame about, i love wearing thongs and bras and lingerie also. Your right about the fact how they make u feel i feel very sexy and look very lovely. I have a very nice collection to choose from and wear them all the time. So don’t feel so bad or b embarrassed.


Be yourself my friend. There are more of us lingerie wearing men out here than most people would think. I’m a 24/7 wearer for pretty much all my life and I’m 70. Both my first and second wife excepted and actually bought items for me. I have 5 kids and 12 grandkids so I think I’m kinda normal. Couldn’t imagine not having the excitement of picking what color and print of panty to wear for the day. Love it.


Hi Matthew, there is no need to hate yourself! Embrace your love of wearing beautiful sexy lingerie! I do.. I threw all my mens boxers away and wear panties every day and I feel so good … I often go out at night in stockings suspenders bra and panties underneath a light coat and I feel amazing and so turned on! Very happy dressing to you.. ben


I am a very fortunate guy my wife buys my panties and bras and my dresses she knows I have been dealing with this for years she gets that it relaxes me. I am a vet it helps.


Well suzy, they do feel amazing, soft and beautiful and yeah, I feel sexy when I wear my burgandy red silk panties! Keep feeling sexy! Ben


My husband thinks he’s the lucky one because I enjoy seeing him in what he wears – I think I’M the lucky one because I GET to see him in what he wears! Cheers to all of you man enough to do what feels right. You don’t need some societal trend to tell you who you are.


You are like my wife. first of all, I’ve never had a pair of womens underwear on in my life. She ordered some panties that were the wrong size when they came in. She gave them to me, and said, here, try these on and see what they feel like. Wow, I never had anything on, that was so comfortable, and so much support to the male parts. The old whitey-tighties i’d been wearing just kinda left you hanging, and were not comfortable at all. Thanks to her, all I wear now is Dixie Belle panties. The whitey-tighties went out to the trash. Guys, you need to try some. You wont believe how they fit, and feel


I’m a straight guy who has most definitely never been a magnet for attractive women, but my Vanity Fair Ravissant and Lace Nouveau Panties give me the sexy, empowered feeling I need!


Hello, I too tried it and love it ! My wife was very turned on when I sent a pic showing off my new found passion. Only problem is that my junk is a little cramped at times, silky panties are my favorite feel.


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