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Male, Married and Loves to Wear Panties

We’re Panty Drop, an intimates company for all shapes and sizes, where you take a quiz and our panty experts find your perfect style and size. Our panties come in all different patterns and fabrics. We know no boundaries when it comes to size (XS-6XL)…and gender as well.

Around 15% of our community is male or identified as males. Was it a surprise to us? Actually, no, because we’re now in 2020 (come on folks) and about 1 in every 25 males in America wear panties.

You might assume that all these men are gender fluid or gay, but in fact many of them identify as straight males and are married. Want to take a peek into these fabulous lives where panties are shared and butts hang free? Read on!

My wife loves them on me

– Anonymous

I was 35 and my wife bought them from Kohl’s (they were Jockey brand for women) for me because I complained a lot about my underwear being too bulky. I loved how they felt and they were so light and the smaller waist band didn’t hurt my stomach like men’s underwear did.

I wear them daily and my preference is the bikini and high cut but I do wear thongs as well.

They make me feel sexy and comfortable. My wife loves them and they also keep me cooler down there. I keep them a secret but my wife’s friends know about them and they are okay with it.

The first time I wore panties, I was probably age 10

– Anonymous

I had some allowance money saved up and bought a couple pairs from a K-Mart that was on my way home from school. I don’t even remember what they looked like. I just remember stopping by the K-Mart everyday on my way home from school and sneaking in and buying panties. 

I wear panties a few days a week. It’s not a special occasion. Sometimes I wear panties to feel sexy. Sometimes I just like how they feel or look. I feel more confident knowing I’ve got my panties on. I feel sexy and empowered.

I’m very secretive about it. Only my wife knows and she’s cool with it. When we got married she was like “You wear whatever you want” and hasn’t really brought it up. 

I think men who want to wear panties should just go for it. It doesn’t make you less “manly”. In fact, it might boost your self-esteem knowing that you’re wearing something sexy and beautiful. I think for me there are several reasons to wear panties:

  1. A good pair of panties is way more comfortable than any men’s underwear.
  2. They are so many choices in cut, style, colors, fabrics, etc. 
  3. They look fantastic!  
  4. They make you feel sexy and confident.

I love thongs. They are very comfortable and sexy at the same time. It took me a long time to figure out the correct sizing because of the anatomical differences. There are all sorts of different styles and fabrics which I appreciate. My wife does enjoy it when I wear a sexy thong or g-string. I think it spices things up a bit. The right thong or g-string gets us both in the mood.

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13 replies on “Male, Married and Loves to Wear Panties”

I myself also love wearing women’s thongs. Especially the colors of pink and hot pink.
I have a very nice selection to choose from and i wear them 24/7.
I have been now for years.


Hi Scott
Lovely to hear your comments about wearing thongs, I love wearing tiny women’s thongs and sometimes male gstrings, they are so sexy to wear


I’m a middle aged male and in the last year I have started to ware panties. I LOVE the feel and the way they make me feel. My wife is not so hot with the fact I ware them. She says they are for ladies. Needless to say I ware my panties daily and love every minute of it!


I have been wearing panties for years and my wife doesn’t care in the least. I am glad companies such as this are recognizing that fact.

“Around 15% of our community is male or identified as males. Was it a surprise to us? Actually, no, because we’re now in 2020 (come on folks) and about 1 in every 25 males in America wear panties.” Thanks, that is brilliant.


I wear them 4 to 5 days a week, I like the way they fit. Mens underwear fit me so strangely that i got to the point i can’t wear most styles. My wife doesn’t approve so i can’t let her know.


I love panties (and bras), the feel and confidence wearing them brings. Every day is a new experience. I could go two months and never wear the same set twice


I am a middle aged man, happily married and been wearing panties for years. I started because of genetics. I come from a family with ample sized butts, and if you have ever had to buy men’s clothes then you know they are not cut for big butts. I found they fit more comfortably and allowed a lot more choices. And by the way this valentines day my got me the monthly subscription. I love them.


Been wearing them since I was a pre adolescent teen. First wife didn’t like it. I’ve got north of 100 pairs, all Victoria’s Secret and more than 20 bras too! Most of my panties are thong or v string… number of sexy hipsters too


That is so awesome, as myself have a very nice selection of thongs and bras mostly from Victoria Secret and Adore Me. My favorite colors are pink and hot pink. Have been wearing women’s thongs and bras and panties now for quite some time and i just love it..


i also am a middle aged man, been wearing off and on since my teen years. Told my wife about my obsession about ten years ago. She knew of my fetish, because ive bought all her panties since weve been married, about 35 years now. She was totally cool with it, and we went out shopping that weekend. Ive been wearing pretty much every day since then. Openly in front of her. I do have some male underwear as i wear them when i know im going to be with the boys. Working, hunting, fishing, quads, that sort of thing.


Been wearing 24/7 for 5 1/2 years. My wife is fine with it. First time I wore a pair I was 6 years old. Loved them ever since, wearing them occasionally until I turned 50. From then on it’s been all I wear. I don’t know why Jockey, VS, Calvin Klein, and VF can’t market their bikini and hipster panties as unisex? They fit better than any male marketed underwear. Thanks for providing this forum!


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