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Male, Married and Loves to Wear Panties

We’re Panty Drop, an intimates company for all shapes and sizes, where you take a quiz and our panty experts find your perfect style and size. Our panties come in all different patterns and fabrics. We know no boundaries when it comes to size (XS-6XL)…and gender as well.

Around 15% of our community is male or identified as males. Was it a surprise to us? Actually, no, because we’re now in 2020 (come on folks) and about 1 in every 25 males in America wear panties.

You might assume that all these men are gender fluid or gay, but in fact many of them identify as straight males and are married. Want to take a peek into these fabulous lives where panties are shared and butts hang free? Read on!

My wife loves them on me

– Anonymous
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I was 35 and my wife bought them from Kohl’s (they were Jockey brand for women) for me because I complained a lot about my underwear being too bulky. I loved how they felt and they were so light and the smaller waist band didn’t hurt my stomach like men’s underwear did.

I wear them daily and my preference is the bikini and high cut but I do wear thongs as well.


They make me feel sexy and comfortable. My wife loves them and they also keep me cooler down there. I keep them a secret but my wife’s friends know about them and they are okay with it.

The first time I wore panties, I was probably age 10

– Anonymous

I had some allowance money saved up and bought a couple pairs from a K-Mart that was on my way home from school. I don’t even remember what they looked like. I just remember stopping by the K-Mart everyday on my way home from school and sneaking in and buying panties. 

I wear panties a few days a week. It’s not a special occasion. Sometimes I wear panties to feel sexy. Sometimes I just like how they feel or look. I feel more confident knowing I’ve got my panties on. I feel sexy and empowered.

I’m very secretive about it. Only my wife knows and she’s cool with it. When we got married she was like “You wear whatever you want” and hasn’t really brought it up. 

I think men who want to wear panties should just go for it. It doesn’t make you less “manly”. In fact, it might boost your self-esteem knowing that you’re wearing something sexy and beautiful. I think for me there are several reasons to wear panties:

  1. A good pair of panties is way more comfortable than any men’s underwear.
  2. They are so many choices in cut, style, colors, fabrics, etc. 
  3. They look fantastic!  
  4. They make you feel sexy and confident.

I love thongs. They are very comfortable and sexy at the same time. It took me a long time to figure out the correct sizing because of the anatomical differences. There are all sorts of different styles and fabrics which I appreciate. My wife does enjoy it when I wear a sexy thong or g-string. I think it spices things up a bit. The right thong or g-string gets us both in the mood.

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84 replies on “Male, Married and Loves to Wear Panties”

I myself also love wearing women’s thongs. Especially the colors of pink and hot pink.
I have a very nice selection to choose from and i wear them 24/7.
I have been now for years.
“I JUST LOVE IT”

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Hi Scott
Lovely to hear your comments about wearing thongs, I love wearing tiny women’s thongs and sometimes male gstrings, they are so sexy to wear

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I love wearing thongs not to much on g strings thought. I also love wearing women’s bras i think it’s just so sexy and i have a very nice selection to choose from

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I wear women’s panties every day as well. They are so much more comfortable and sexy than men’s underwear. I started wearing the thongs at a suggestion from my doctor. I am a carpenter and used to chafe real bad, so she asked if I would consider wearing a thong. So I tried it and it worked great, no more chafing. I’ve been wearing panties everyday since….over 40 years.

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Hi Scott, I’ve been wearing cotton and satin panties for almost a year and I love how they fit and the softness.. I wont be wearing mens knickers again.. Ben

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All the best to you Mark.. Hope you’ll be able to tell her soon buddy and she is understanding… My girl buys some panties for me, especially the soft cotton and sexy satin ones.. She has also bought me a few very short skirts that I wear around the house, which I do enjoy doing.. I love the freedom of feeling air around my legs..
I know that I am so lucky in having such an understanding girl… Women’s panties really are the best !!

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It’s vanity fair full briefs for me. Wife knows but doesn’t like it. Once a month she lets me go to a motel where I can fully dress as a woman. Pretty lingerie makes me feel very feminine and I am lucky enough to have found and associate at V. Secret who encourages me to be the woman I want to be.
Paula

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I’m a middle aged male and in the last year I have started to ware panties. I LOVE the feel and the way they make me feel. My wife is not so hot with the fact I ware them. She says they are for ladies. Needless to say I ware my panties daily and love every minute of it!

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I have been wearing panties for years and my wife doesn’t care in the least. I am glad companies such as this are recognizing that fact.

“Around 15% of our community is male or identified as males. Was it a surprise to us? Actually, no, because we’re now in 2020 (come on folks) and about 1 in every 25 males in America wear panties.” Thanks, that is brilliant.

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I wear them 4 to 5 days a week, I like the way they fit. Mens underwear fit me so strangely that i got to the point i can’t wear most styles. My wife doesn’t approve so i can’t let her know.

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I love panties (and bras), the feel and confidence wearing them brings. Every day is a new experience. I could go two months and never wear the same set twice

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I love wearing thongs not to much on g strings thought. I also love wearing women’s bras i think it’s just so sexy and i have a very nice selection to choose from .

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I am a middle aged man, happily married and been wearing panties for years. I started because of genetics. I come from a family with ample sized butts, and if you have ever had to buy men’s clothes then you know they are not cut for big butts. I found they fit more comfortably and allowed a lot more choices. And by the way this valentines day my got me the monthly subscription. I love them.

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Been wearing them since I was a pre adolescent teen. First wife didn’t like it. I’ve got north of 100 pairs, all Victoria’s Secret and more than 20 bras too! Most of my panties are thong or v string…..limited number of sexy hipsters too

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That is so awesome, as myself have a very nice selection of thongs and bras mostly from Victoria Secret and Adore Me. My favorite colors are pink and hot pink. Have been wearing women’s thongs and bras and panties now for quite some time and i just love it..

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i also am a middle aged man, been wearing off and on since my teen years. Told my wife about my obsession about ten years ago. She knew of my fetish, because ive bought all her panties since weve been married, about 35 years now. She was totally cool with it, and we went out shopping that weekend. Ive been wearing pretty much every day since then. Openly in front of her. I do have some male underwear as i wear them when i know im going to be with the boys. Working, hunting, fishing, quads, that sort of thing.

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I am a full time panty wearing man. 24/7. I absolutely adore panties, I gave up boy underwear many years ago. I do recommend that men who wear panties regularly wax their privates, front and rear, full Brazilian. A beautifully bare wax makes Panty wearing for men more attractive and enjoyable. Plus, my female aesthetician enjoys looking at my panty choices and helps me select flattering styles, colors, and patterns.

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Been wearing 24/7 for 5 1/2 years. My wife is fine with it. First time I wore a pair I was 6 years old. Loved them ever since, wearing them occasionally until I turned 50. From then on it’s been all I wear. I don’t know why Jockey, VS, Calvin Klein, and VF can’t market their bikini and hipster panties as unisex? They fit better than any male marketed underwear. Thanks for providing this forum!

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I wear panties and a bra daily and my wife knows and approves She found out shortly after we started dating and not only did it excite her, from that point on she started encouraging me getting me to wear other items of women’s lingerie, like a panty girdle, daily.

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I am a crossdresser, my wife knows and accepts. Due to a medical issue, I have changed to panties and a liner everyday. So much more comfortable, and I admit, I do enjoy wearing a pad. Yes, my wife knows and understands

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It sounds like you and your wife, Valentina, are like I and my wife. Fortunately I don’t have a medical issue, but I do wear panties and a bra daily. In fact I haven’t owned nor worn male undites in many many yearsw. Yes I love the look, feel and fit of lingerie.

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Seems we do share some of the same desire and enjoyment. Even if I didn’t have a medical issue, wearing panties and a pad would still be a joy. For me, wearing a bra and panties just compels me to finish dressing, and enjoy letting Valentina come to life, breath, and smile. Thanks for understanding

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I’ve been wearing panties exclusively now for about 5 years. Im 39. I hid it for a while before that. My wife is totally on board with it. She is the only one who knows (except for a few salesgirls and some guys in the gym lockerroom) it feels good being out with and being comfortable wearing them. They’re just great and make me feel good 🙂 Im glad this company appreciates men, and dowsnt embarras us and our preference. After all its just clothing!

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I started wearing panties 11 years ago during recovery from groin surgery. Obviously more comfortable. I haven’t worn men’s underwear since. My choice is full briefs in different styles. I had a wonderful sales associate help with my selection, fabric, style, and size.

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Awesome Jarrat! I haven’t owned nor worn anything other than lingerie for 3 decades and woment’s clothes since I got married which was over 2 decades ago.

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Hi, I’ve been wearing panties (knickers!) on and off since before I was a teen. First just curious about why my mum wore ‘pants with lots of holes in them’. The lacy knickers were nice, comfortable and I started wearing them whenever I could. By the time I had left university and started work, I had a small collection which I wore very occasionally, but in mid ’93 I decided to only wear women’s underwear. I now have a collection of well over 400. Enough to wear one every day of the year and still have some left over. My favourites are fine microfibre/ lycra / elastane mixes with nylon not cotton. Mostly M&S, but some others as well. I married late and told my wife to be the very first time we were intimate. She was startled but accepted it. She isn’t turned on by it, but also isn’t turned off by it. She tolerates and accepts it and acknowledges that I can’t change that part of my life, but doesn’t particularly like it.

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I am pretty much in the same boat with my wife. I have been wearing lingerie off and on since I was a teen, but stopped when a girlfriend found out and did not approve. After things ended with her I began wearing again and my current wife knows and though shes not excited about it, she tolerates it but does not want any part of it really. I now only wear panties, as she already said she cannot take me wearing other female items as that is too far. I just sneak some time in her lingerie whenever I can :). I have tried several brands, but found that my favorite are Cacique panties, especially the Extra Soft Hipsters!! I’ve been tempted to sign up for pantydrop, but my wife says i already have too many panties lol. I think I lost count around 400 or so.

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I’ve been in love with panties since discovering the pleasure of wearing them when I was 11 and found my mom’s lingerie drawer. At first, it was just a once-in-a-while fling of passion, but later in life, I learned to buy my own to wear more often. Now, even 50 years later, I wear pretty, sexy panties daily and have a lovely, colorful drawer full of all kinds of them, plus a few other delectable underthings. There’s nothing like opening your panty drawer each morning and seeing all those pretty things from which to choose to make you feel good all under, all day. My wife has been accepting ever since she found a few in my drawer when we were dating so long ago and I showed her how excited they make me feel.

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I have always worn mens underpants such as Y Front and shorts until the day I went to Hospital to be fitted with a Catheter after a Operation. I was unable to sit down or drive a car as my under wear wasn’t flexible for the Catheter. After advice I purchased some ladies panties from a store and from that day onwards my life changed for ever. I still had the Catheter for many months until it was removed but I still carried on with the ladies panties (nothing else you hear about) I even tell people about it and they seem very understanding about it. I live alone and I feel very comfortable when I go out and about. No more shorts or Y front for me again.

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Thanks for sharing, I been wearing panties for about 10 years and I love them. I complained to my wife about how men’s hurt and was uncomfortable. She gave me a pair of her to wear. After that I was hooked and bought my own sexy ones. I wear everyday and don’t own men’s garbage anymore.

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I have worn ladies full cut nylon panties since I was about 4 or 5. I started with mommies, of course, but I have always loved the secret thrill, and feel, of a pair of panties against my body. I am looking for friends with the same interest and feelings.

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Started wearing full time a few years back. Wife is cool about it and doesn’t mind.. she washes and folds them neatly in my panty drawer and never complains when I buy more.

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I have always had a fetish for women/girls panties. They feel so much more comfortable than men’s briefs plus they fit more closely to my skin. My wife has become comfortable in seeing me in cotton white panties.

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I like Jockey No Panty Line Promise in high cut or Vanity fair Illumination string bikinis. Both fit great for all day wearing and lots of colors and prints to choose from. Follow the sizing guidelines for your waist. Let me know what you think.

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Well I started wearing women’s underwear when I was about 15 or so. I had to change and all she had was a pair of bikini briefs. They fit nicely. So after I started wearing the men’s bikini style.
After a few it was hard to find these styles anywhere for men so I took a stroll through the women’s underwear and lo and behold all the different styles and sizes they offered. I found the right fit after the salesperson helped me with the sizing. She said she had a son who wore them too.
So she said we should meet and maybe go shopping together. So we did, that was probably the most fun I had shopping for panties.
I still wear panties , but plus size now. Haha.

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Well my sister and her friends first dressed me in their clothes. I was 8 and they were 12/13. This went on until she graduated from high school. One day mom come home early and caught us. Mom wasn’t too upset and asked me if i liked wearing them i told her yes. That night she told me to go take a bath, she came a d added bubble bath. After my bath I dried off she came in with a nitie for me to wear. After I graduated from high school i joined the Navy after i got out . After several years I got married unknown to me my mom told that i worn panties. I also became incontinent and i had to wear pads. So on our wedding day my wife bought over a pair of panties. From that day on I have been wearing panties and as time went i had to wear pullups during the day and diapers at night. My wife and I also worn matching nities.

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I tried on a pair of my older sister’s panties when I was 12 and alone in the house. In time I tried on my mom’s briefs. However, I didn’t start wearing panties until about 5 years ago when I was 69. I was doing it without my wife’s knowledge. I started with thongs and bikinis but found they didn’t contain my genitals as they were falling out the sides of the panties. Three years ago I purchased a pair of VF nylon panties and I was hooked. They felt wonderful and held everything in check. Since then my wife discovered my panties. We sat down and had a long conversation on why I liked wearing them. She was afraid I was becoming a cross dresser. After assuring her I wasn’t and still a straight male, she grudgingly accepted my choice of underwear. I now own brief panties from Belks (Kim Rogers nylon panties), VF (Lace Nuveau, Ravissant), Bali (double support briefs, skimp scamp), Shadowline (no seam briefs). I love them all but my favorite is the Bali double support. I wear panties 24/7 even when I go on weekend golf outings with my male friends. I recently had a visit to my urologist (kidney stones) and to my surprise he insisted on doing a prostate exam. Well, I just dropped my pants and there I was in my Kim Rogers panties. He did his exam and never said a word to me about wearing panties. My female dermatologist also knows I wear panties and hasn’t said anything to me about it. My wife does the laundry and takes care of washing all my panties. Me wearing panties is our little secret along with my doctors!

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Good for you. Panties are the best. I’ve been wearing panties most of my life. I also found certain ones don’t hold in the parts. I’ve been buying lately Victoria’s Secret panties and found some to be great for keeping everything in check. You have to look at the cut in the front. Some have a wider cut and work great for guys. In my early panty years I bought a lot of them from Walmart and they fit great.

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I can’t remember how long I’ve been wearing panties but it’s been over 30 years now.. I do not own any men’s under ware. My wife buys me panties for Christmas and birthdays. I prefer bikini panties and I wear thong panties too. I especially wear thong panties when I go to my ballet class wearing leotards and tights. I’ve been buying more Victoria Secret panties lately because I really love the way they look, feel and fit. The clerks in the store suggest styles that most of the men like that come in there. I probable have at least 200 pair of panties.

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I love to wear panties. I find them to be softer and they support my man parts way better. My wife likes the way they look (they do look really good) and feel on my body. My favorites right now are the Ambrielle Seemless High Cut Panties. They’re very soft, smooth and stretchy. I also have a few cheekies and a few thongs.

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I wore my first pair of panties at 11 years old. It was Halloween I was thin and fair skinned and was not sure what to be so my aunt decided I’d make a great gypsy girl. Had on a peasant dress cousins stuffed bra, makeup, wig ,bandana and nylon panty because it was windy so if dress blew up it would not show it was a boy.I remember she thought I was flushed from embarrassment but I was actually excited at how I looked and especially how panty felt. I’ve been wearing nylon or satin panties since except my Navy years. Now I only wear panties wifes ok with that. Wear them 24/7 dont own mens. My fan spirited are Jockey Smooth and radiant hipster and katie and Laura’s fancy satin panties. I’m sure glad I got to be a gypsy girl back then. My lucky day

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I wore my first pair of panties at 11 years old. It was Halloween I was thin and fair skinned and was not sure what to be so my aunt decided I’d make a great gypsy girl. Had on a peasant dress cousins stuffed bra, makeup, wig ,bandana and nylon panty because it was windy so if dress blew up it would not show it was a boy.I remember she thought I was flushed from embarrassment but I was actually excited at how I looked and especially how panty felt. I’ve been wearing nylon or satin panties since except my Navy years. Now I only wear panties wifes ok with that. Wear them 24/7 dont own mens. My favorite are Jockey Smooth and radiant hipster and katie and Laura’s fancy satin panties. I’m sure glad I got to be a gypsy girl back then. My lucky day

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Thanks to Fred from December 31 st comment
The brands he likes are some of my favorites
Bali skimp scamp and double support are great, I have several in my panty drawer.
Maiden Form casual comfort is one to look for ,hipster and thongs.
I like most guys started my fascination for panties in my early teens but kept it quiet. My wife new I loved the feel of panties during sex but never thought of me wearing them everyday. It wasn’t till my mid 60’s that I came out and told her I wanted to start wearing women’s panties. At first she didn’t understand ,thinking I was gay. it took time for her to accept it.
Now, three years later she has fun shopping and surprising me with a new color or sexy pair. I have so may I don’t have to do panty laundry for two months.
We are so much closer as a couple than ever before.
Never going back to heavy men’s underwear

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I only have one pair of men’s underwear. Though I don’t have any lacey or frilly ones, mostly Blacks and pastel colors, and pair of light pink cotton briefs, My wife washes and folds my panties for

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I am a male who had an orchiectomy for medical reasons. This means I no longer have testicles. Mens underwear was just bunching up in front … I no longer have a need for the “pouch”. Womens underwear fits way more comfortably and I find it just better.

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Hello. I’m new to this now. I asked my wife a few days ago if she would mind me wearing her panties. She said if it makes you more comfortable then do it. so I did. She went out today and bought me about 10 pairs of women’s panties. I love the way they feel and how comfortable they are. I’m also glad my wife approves of me wearing them.

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I got my wife to introduce her panty drawer to me almost 20 years ago , and now I have more than she does. Not only are they much more comfortable but so many styles and colors to choose from. It’s so exciting to receive a gift of new panties because I know she put thought in choosing something special for me. We even have several matching pairs.
Our relationship is terrific and this is one thing that brought us closer in our marriage of 40 years.
My panty wearing is our little secret.

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I started wearing panties in my early teens “ borrowing” my mothers or sisters nylon briefs. Every time I borrowed them I was rewarded with an orgasm. So, wearing panties became a substitute for being win an actual female. So, even though I had girlfriends and eventually married a wonderful women, panties became a substitute during “dry spells” . I never told my wife about my little fetish as I know her well enough to know she would not take it well and so far, I have managed to keep it to myself. For a while, I also experimented with other lingerie, bras, slips, pantyhose, etc and acquired quite a collection but now, I simply enjoy wearing panties from time to time. My favorites are full cut nylon briefs: Vanity Fair Lace Nouveau and Ravissant briefs are pretty much my “go to” panties and are readily available in most department stores but I also like Carole nylon briefs because of the wide gusset. (Holds a pad quite nicely).

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Thanks for liking my post. It’s great to share panty tips with other men that have been wearing for a long time or just getting into it. So many choices that it can be overwhelming. I’ve thrown out several pair because they simply didn’t work for men. But when you get the right fit there’s more comfortable.
I know more men are wearing panties than ever before. It’s so easy to order on line.

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I have been wearing panties everyday for 15 years. I used to complain to my wife that men undies always gave me rashes and uncomfortable. So one day she gave me a pair of hers to wear. I tried it on and off to work I went, Got home she asked how they felt. I replied they felt amazing and so comfortable. So the weekend came and we went panty shopping.
Men just do yourself a favor and wear them, They are much cooler and feel so good. I believe there would be more happy men in this world if we all wore panties.
Plus it’s just clothing!!!

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Love this site. I wear womens panties as often as I can. Wife doesn’t know my fetish, she knows I like panties since I buy her pretty much every VS panty there is. She just doesn’t know I like wearing them as well. Started young by playing dress up with sisters…then it just stuck..the look and feel got me. Love them!

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Try and find a way to tell her , it will be the most liberating thing you can do for both of you. I’m 69 and started liking panties when I was 13. My wife of 40 plus years knew but did not know that I would secretly wear them on occasions for the entire day. About 5 years ago I came out and told her my desire to wear them and couldn’t be deceitful and sneak around. Honesty worked. Now she surprises me on birthdays, Christmas and just for the heck of it with panties, we even have matching pairs. I’ve posted here before how it made our marriage closer.
I have 4 or 5 times as many panties as she does, it’s a jock we have between us.
I haven’t worn a pair of men’s undies since I told her.

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When I first met my wife I wore these men’s under ware that looked like panties. She liked them then I started to buy some women’s panties and she never seemed to know the difference. Long story short after 25 years of marriage I only wear panties. I even wear them to the doctors. My wife buys me panties even lace panties for my birthday and Christmas. Lately we have been shopping at Victoria’s secret lately and buying matching panties and she has even bought me leggings there which I wear all over. Chances are if you tell her you would like to try some because you heard they were more comfortable maybe she would go along.

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Love wearing bikini panties and bras been wearing since I was 12. Love the feel how they look on me. Love the colors love the feel of bra and panties on under my clothes in public. Love to act feminine sometimes

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Hi, tried posting before and it never showed up… I’ve been wearing panties exclusively now for about 5 years. Im 40 and married with 2 kids. I used to sneak around for years, and finally just decided to let my wife “catch” me. I wore a pink lacy pair all day with then hanging out the back of my shorts until she finally noticed. She wasnt thrilled at first but it forced a conversation. Probably not the best way to do it but in the long run it was effective. They’re all I wear now, and she’s even gone shopping with me one time ( I wish it were more.) But keeping the secret from her was miserable. Its soo nice to just be me 🙂 They’re all I own, although I do have some very subtle black hipsters for work, gym, doctors etc that are barely noticeable as panties unless you saw the liner 😉
Love this forum and the acceptance of men!

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I know what you mean about having to sneak around and hide something so innocent from the wife. Once they accept it it’s great when they become part of our enjoyment. I have made several posts about how much closer my marriage is by including my wife. So crazy how something so simple can give some of us guys so much pleasure.

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